The Influence of Women In The Book of Mormon

Saraiah

There is a reason why Nephi, of all the adjectives he could have used, described his parents as “goodly.” They were a powerful example of obedience for the young boy. Lehi commanded young Nephi to depart Jerusalem and go to the wilderness. This included leaving their riches and comfortable life to travel to the wild. To a woman who does not have a testimony of her husband’s calling, the decision would have been different. But Sariah willingly obeyed her husband, packed up, and left for the unknown. It was an evidence of her testimony of her belief in the calling of her husband and the commandment of the Lord.

Sariah also showed us that sometimes, we can murmur out of worry and fear. However, she also provided an example of repentance and relying again to the Lord.There are Priesthood holders all around us. They could be our father, husband, brothers, or a dear friend. Sariah showed us an important lesson. We must learn to trust in the revelation received by a worthy Priesthood holder.

Wives Who Showed Great Faith

Nephi’s Wife

Ishmael, Nephi’s father-in-law, was a dear friend of the family. It’s safe to assume that this man led an affluent family in Jerusalem. Included in this family was the wife of Nephi. Surely, she must have had a comfortable, luxurious lifestyle. But she bravely went with Nephi’s family to the wilderness. She experienced fatigue, hunger, exhaustion and loss. When Laman and Lemuel tied up Nephi, she pleaded with them and prayed for his release. Nephi’s wife, to me, is an example of bravery and faith. She was willing to give up the comforts of life just to obey the Lord.

Whenever I think of her, I remember the young brides of this generation. Them who bravely accepted the role of becoming a wife and a mother despite the uncertainties. I am impressed with the way they accept the Lord’s commandment.

King Lamoni’s Queen

Although she was in mourning, the Queen called for Ammon. In there, Ammon told her that the King was not dead and he will wake up the next day. After speaking these words, Ammon asked her if she believed. She showed great faith when she said ” I believe that it shall be according as thou hast said.” (Alma 19:9). Even though she was not yet a convert, she showed great faith
In these days, the revelations by the Prophet contradicts to what the world dictates. We can follow the example of Lamoni’s Queen by following and believing in the Prophet called of God.

Women Who Showed Bravery

Abish

I’d like to call Abish a home-called missionary. She was a Lamanite who was converted because of the vision of her father. For years, she kept her beliefs because it was from their enemy, the Nephites. However, when Ammon started to show the power of God, Abish couldn’t contain her testimony. anymore and she ran and told everyone. Her fearless expression of her testimony helped convert many. (See Alma 19)
Like Abish, women can be powerful instruments in sharing the gospel. It is possible even without a missionary nametag. A woman with a strong testimony can bring about great blessings to those around her.

Morianton’s Maid Servant (Alma 50: 30-33)

Morianton and his people had a plan to hold captive the northern lands. However, his maidservant ran and told Moroni about this plan. Thus, their evil desires did not push through.As women of the Lord, we must not be afraid to stand up for what is right and to defend those who are bullied.

Women Who Taught

Mothers of the Stripling Warriors

Despite the young age of his army, they impressed Helaman with their obedience and faith. When asked why they never doubt that God will deliver them, they answered ” We do not doubt our mothers knew it.”

The mothers of these warriors instilled the importance of putting their trust in the Lord. As mothers and future mothers, may we take example from these women. When our children face their modern battles, they will know what to do because “their mothers knew it.”
These Book of Mormon women and their stories may have just occupied a small part of the book but their influence is profound. May we look to them in our quest to become better daughters of God.

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It is indeed true that behind a man’s success is usually a woman. But I also believe that behind a wonderful woman is a good man, whether that be a loving father, husband, or a supportive brother, friend, or son. When a woman gets married and has her own children her whole life changes. She has more responsibilities, she often has less time for herself, and her priorities change. And because people know how hard it is to be a wife and a mother, often times people wonder how others remain so inwardly beautiful and happy.

Most of the wives and mothers that I know have told me that if a woman is always happy, no matter how hard the challenges she may be facing, the beautiful countenance on her face will stay because the joy that she has is from the inside and not just from outward beauty secrets. One reason for a woman’s lasting happiness is when she knows her worth as a woman. But at some points when a woman feels so overwhelmed by the world’s expectations, she may forget who she is and sometimes even get lost.

A very close friend of mine who is a husband also said, “A wife must know every single day how precious she is. Over time I learned how to make my wife happy and beautiful every single day of her life. I believe that I am a living mirror of my wife.”

This very good friend of mine even shared some reminders for his fellow men on how to make their wives feel inwardly beautiful.

1. Appreciate her. Always be sensitive to this. Don’t forget to say thank you. Showing your genuine gratitude will make her feel that she is valued. Women are very sensitive that’s why they are called to be mothers. Make her always feel that she’s everything to you.
2. Tell her every day how beautiful she is. Tell her these lines especially after a long day doing tasks and duties for your children. When she feels that she’s beautiful to you, her self-esteem will increase.
3. Do not overload her. You are partners, that’s why you should equally work things out. It does not mean that if you work all day, you are excused from doing household chores.
4. Court her every day. Give her your hugs and kisses. Always remember the important events like your anniversary, her birthday, and others. Write her letters, make some cute art for her, sometimes I buy my wife a dress or make her favorite dessert.
5. Listen to her. When she’s trying to tell you something, stop and listen. Especially if your wife stays alone the whole day at home.
6. Respect her. Your faithfulness to your wife increases her self-respect. Never yell at her. Do not embarrass her especially in front of others. Give her words of love and encouragement.
7. Be a blessing and not a burden. Your wife will be your best friend and companion. Never treat her like your maid or your house help. I know most of us men are not as expressive or as sensitive as women, but I assure you that if you’ll help yourself to learn at least some of this, you’ll realize that she’s even more beautiful than the first time you met her.

I am so proud of this man. I am a witness of his great love for his wife. I even understand now why his wife looks so lovely and is always wearing her sweet smile. Her bright countenance inspires other women to remember their great worth. And I am also grateful for a good husband who is always there to encourage, to inspire and to make me feel beautiful always.

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